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elfpie , to asklemmy in What are all the ethnic foods you've ever eaten?

Ethnic and exotic food suddenly sound like very strange terms. This question made me realize that people from outside would call the food of my country simply Brazilian food, but we ourselves divide and subdivided them in more categories. I’m sure the same is true everywhere.

I know this is not a question for discussion, but I thought this could add more variety to the answers.

shinigamiookamiryuu OP ,

I used the terms in the sense that they refer to any division of people based on culture, not so much in the sense that I was implying an Axis Mundi of cuisine. Someone for example asked if I would consider KFC “ethnic food” even if one lived in the United States where Kentucky (the home of KFC) exists, and I said that yes, the case could be made.

AdNecrias ,

That’s how they’re named outside. You see Brazilian rodízio, or Paulistan pizza at times. But it’s usually a mix of adding feijoada to the countries grill.

jwphinia , to lemmyshitpost in Ignore the haters!
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You again? You have activated my flamin' spellcard attack, Greg!

Chaphasilor , to selfhosted in NAS / NAS + server? Unraid, Proxmox, Intel, AMD? Looking for guidance.

I’ve gone the TrueNAS SCALE route myself, with TN running on bare metal. All my containers/apps are set up through it, and I’ve also spun up Windows and Linux VMs without major issues, including GPU and USB passthrough.

I do enjoy the security it gives me, will all my apps being versioned/snapshotted regularly and before every update, as well as the rest of my data. Since TN is only using ZFS and not something like MergerFS (which I believe is used by Unraid), the upgrade path is a bit mote restricted. So you should definitely look into your options up-front. For example, you won’t be able to expand a vdev (virtual ZFS disk) later on, you’ll have to create a new one. And you can only use equivalent vdevs to form pools. That means if you start with 3 drives in a vdev for your main storage pool, you can only expand that pool by adding anothet 3 drives with the same capacity as a secons vdev. So make sure you can stomach these costs, or go for fewer and cheaper drives, with a large case.

As for apps, you can set up docker apps easily, and there are a large number of officially or community-maintained apps, where any breaking changes and migrations are handled for you, so updating is a breeze. But you don’t have a much flexibility as with a custom setup. TN has been becoming more generic in that regard though, switching from k3s to regular docker, so you could probably play around with stuff via the CLI without major issues.

Oh and one more thing: you should probably use a separate, dedicated device for Home Assistant. Use a Raspberry Pi or one of their official boards, and you’ll have better support, more features, redundancy, and can still create backups on your NAS via SMB.
Such a second device that is also connected via Tailscale doesn’t hurt either, just in case.

zante , to nostupidquestions in How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?

It’s a been a long long time since I was dating, anyone who turns you down and says “sorry you’re too thin” is best avoided to say the least.

In fact I’m having a difficult time believing you keep hearing it, because it’s so rude.

Kecessa ,

Or it’s clearly just an excuse and there’s something else about OP

throwaway OP ,

Be it my weight, face, or my personality, it actually hardly matters. Bottom line: There is an (innerly or outerly) ugly person who only wants to date attractive people, and by that they cannot get a partner. If that’s too much of a stretch for you, then there is no point explaining.

Kecessa ,

So you’re mad that people have the same criterias you do?

throwaway OP ,

Did you even read my post? I am bitter about the fact I can’t find a partner, yes. That’s nobody’s fault. I perfectly understand and accept as to why. But yes I can still be bend out of shape about my loneliness.

Kecessa ,

You’re certainly ripe for the taking for the incel movement I can tell you that…

Randomgal ,

Wtf is wrong with you? OP is literally walking down the path opposite to incedom. Fuck off troll.

Kecessa ,

Pointing out their hypocrisy?

otp ,

You’re a real beacon of positivity, huh? And you clearly didn’t read their post.

friend_of_satan , (edited )

It could be an excuse to avoid the real reasons. If OP really wants to know the full story, he could ask one of the women who said this to be 100% honest with him about all the reasons she’s not interested.

Today ,

I believe it. My sons are tall and thin. People say things to them that they would never say to a short or heavy person! When they were younger, older women would offer to buy them food in bars, like they were thin because they were too poor to eat.

EpsilonEridani , to android in I'm wondering if anyone could please help me out with rooting my device

Hi, I did a quick search for it and i see what you mean. Most of those site assume you already have bootloader unlocked and TWRP installed, but don’t even give good instructions anyway. Here’s a link i found that gives a detailed procedure from beginning to end. It’s from 2022 but it should work. I have done this on an old phone (galaxy A20). Make sure you backup your data. thecustomdroid.com/galaxy-tab-a7-2020-rooting-gui…For degoogling, i would recommend looking up MicroG to replace Gplay store. Good luck!

AndrewZabar OP ,

Thank you I appreciate it!

EpsilonEridani ,

You’re welcome!

BuboScandiacus , to nostupidquestions in I think I am socially ostrasized, what should I do?
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Are you a boring person ? I’m in a similar situation and prety much figured out that his was the issue

DivergentHarmonics ,

“Boring” people often have a good time with other “boring” people. So it’s maybe just a case of looking in the wrong places?

petrescatraian , to piracy in Oh no! I dropped (5£ to) Anna's Archives. Beware the mess, people.

@Flatworm7591 I heard about libgen and sci-hub from my uni professors. Before that, I never knew anything about them.

DavidDoesLemmy , to asklemmy in What are all the ethnic foods you've ever eaten?
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I live in the south, and we don’t have many Mexican restaurants. We have more Asian restaurants. Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese. Also Ethiopian is delicious.

deranger , to nostupidquestions in How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?

Eat more good food and lift some weights to gain muscle mass. You don’t have to be one of those giant dudes but a bit of definition goes a long way. It’ll also help prevent you from being frail when you’re older. I’d like to continue opening jars and carrying my own groceries for as long as possible. There are a lot of health benefits, and you don’t even need to go to the gym if you get adjustable weights and a multipurpose bench. I’ve been doing exactly this and I’m up 40 lbs and look better. I’m still a tall lanky dude at 6’3”, but I’m not nearly as skinny (165->205lbs).

shekau , to linux in NVIDIA GPU not detected after driver update

nvidia fucking sucks, after each kernel update theres issues with installing drivers and theres nothing I can do except for waiting for nvidia to release newer drivers

ving_thor , to nostupidquestions in How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?

I agree with the recommendation for therapy. I can say that it helped me to get in a more positive and constructive mind set.

Other thoughts on your lack of intimacy:

Getting a pet can give some kind of replacement for intimacy with another human being. Sure, it is not the same. But cuddling with a cat can help to feel less lonely.

For intimicy as in “sex”, I think there is nothing wrong with considering sex workers. Unless of course it is illegal in your country…

TheButtonJustSpins , to asklemmy in Anyone remember the name of a TV horror anthology series set in a gentleman's club?

Might want to ask in !moviesandtv.

TheButtonJustSpins , to asklemmy in Anyone remember the name of a TV horror anthology series set in a gentleman's club?

Might want to ask in !tipofmytongue.

LouNeko , to nostupidquestions in How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?

This is why I feel like the whole “body positivity” movement is a god damn joke. It’s mostly about women who love munching cake more than having unclogged arteries. In the last decade we got so many shows and movies where the characters can be morbidly obese and everybody should praise them for their bravery. We got even plus sized manikins in stores, wow.

But I dare you to name a single character from a show or movie that is skinny (not jacked skinny, but skinny skinny) that isn’t a crackhead junkie, some psycho or a basement dweller with his eyes glued to a screen?

Hell, just name a Hollywood actor that is skinny?

I know one, DJ Qualms, who’s arguably most famous role is a disabled person. Great.

I really don’t blame women for not preferring skinny guys, I blame Hollywood for 3 decades of horrible PR.

gigachad ,

OP is asking about not becoming bitter, here you are, spreading nothing but bitterness.

LouNeko ,

Oh no, that’s like not me at all /s.

2ugly2live ,
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That’s a very surface level glance at the movement. Don’t get me wrong, it is about women who “love munching on cake” because those women should be able to do whatever the fuck they want and still be respected and treated with dignity(I also can’t ignore that it’s an issue for fat women, but not fat men?) . You don’t have to find fat people attractive, hell, you don’t even have to like them, but that doesn’t mean that person should be condemned to a life of solitude and ridicule until their body is good enough for society. Life is too short for that. Even if you’re working towards health, you should still get to experience the world today. However, that’s one piece of of the movement, it is also about stopping the “real women have curves” ideas, and putting body types against each other. It’s about how leading men are showing casually jacked forms like that’s just what the average guy looks like. It’s about men not drinking water before shoots to see their muscles better, even if it leaves them dangerously dehydrated. It’s about men who are ridiculed or turned down for their height alone. It’s about men like OP who think their body type isn’t good enough, it’s about the women OP met who automatically deemed OP’s value by his apperence. If your complaint is that there aren’t enough representations of male body types, that is part of the body positivity movement. These desires are not opposed to each other, but to do one, you have to do the other. You can’t have a message of “All these bodies are great, except those.” It shouldn’t matter how the body got the way it is, or even if the body is healthy. It deserves respect. I don’t chastise and belittle thin people, or even “too thin” people, and go, “you need to eat a sandwich. You need to lift weights. I’m just worry about your health after all. God, just eat more. It’s not hard.” If they’re not friends or family, it’s none of my fucking business.

For some reason fat people feeling good and desirable about their bodies seems like the worst fucking thing for whatever reason. We have had people doing all kinds of drugs and harmful practices to stay thin, or avoid that ridicule. Fat shouldn’t be a social death knell. A condition, sure. Not healthy, fine. Not worth being seen or existing? Not fine.

lady_maria ,
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We got even plus sized manikins in stores, wow.

you do know that’s because plus-sized clothing exists too, right? Do you expect stores to just not display their clothes simpy because they’re for fat people, or…?

But I dare you to name a single character from a show or movie that is skinny (not jacked skinny, but skinny skinny) that isn’t a crackhead junkie, some psycho or a basement dweller with his eyes glued to a screen?

Victor, from Arcane; Ben Wyatt, from Parks and Recreation; Gareth Keenan, from The Office (UK); Ken Cosgrove from Mad Men. I’m sure there are many more, but that’s just who I could think of off the top of my head.

I absolutely agree that there should be better representation of men’s (and women’s, imo) body types, including skinny men. But you’re really overestimating the quantity and quality of decent representation of fat women in roles that don’t rely on steroetypes. By that, I mean: isn’t unhinged/shrill/creepy/portrayed as gross or undesirable because she’s fat (and sometimes old)/there solely and shallowly as “the funny fat woman”. The majority of roles played by women, especially prominent ones, are still played by thin women.

Fat female characters are relatable and important to have because—whether you like it or not—fat women exist in real life. One simply existing in media does not inherently come with a statement condoning any particular lifestyle as you seem to be implying.

I know one, DJ Qualms, who’s arguably most famous role is a disabled person. Great.

…and? That’s a bad thing to you?

Linkerbaan , to games in RuneScape is increasing their membership price by 50%, and Reddit is trying to censor it
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Runescape almost als expensive as WoW was 20 year ago

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