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I've seen some of you posting this article. The author says that many communication issues exist because autistic people have a harder time inferring meanings and intentions from what other people say.

So, I just wanted to share the most helpful thing I learned in school about communication. It's a useful framework for improving the way you speak or listen to other people. It's non-pathologizing and I think both ND and NT people benefit from it.

https://theconversation.com/how-autistic-and-non-autistic-people-can-understand-each-other-better-234320

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Thanks a lot for this thread!

Taking the person you talk to into account would make (not clarified) misunderstandings a lot more uncommon. For everyone. Since I learned about communication and behaviour "models" like the one you wrote about, I increasingly wonder why people are not keen on improving their skills to lessen fraction in communication by themselves.

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🤯 I guess you are right. You "hit the nail on its head" 😁

I had that discussion with a coworker. He said "I am so often misunderstood, but this is my burden in life" and I was like "no burden, but a well changeable thing - which is good for you."
He did not take is seriously and claimed that people should accept him "as he was", because he did not have those problems with family.
What he meant: Not wanting to take effort to be understood -.-

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Yipp. And that's where imho everyone has to take responsibility to enable the addressee to get what is meant. Ideally by saying it out loud.
But i guess a lot of people are not positive towards "letting people know what I really think" - because it makes them vulnerable (so they think) and people can be cruel -.-

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