I didn't think you intended any malice, it's just the way we frame things is important and our words have impact, which is why I pointed it out.
All I intended was to mock Musk for being the stereotypical macho asshole who can’t accept the end of a relationship with dignity.
next time you can just say that, it's accurate and places the blame where it belongs!
Still he can go fuck himself.
absolutely, I'm in no way trying to defend him here, it's just about trying to focus on the right thing and not play in to already damaging stereotypes (the "gay/rans panic" defence is where this particular one ends up).