Yes. Correct. Cis people don’t get to tell lgbt people what they should and should not be offended by.
Heads will never be cooler. You’d be banned from every trans space on reddit for the shit you’ve said here. Not only that, but you’d be banned from many of the subs I frequent. Go to gamingcirclejerk and behave this way, banned. Go to animememes and behave this way, banned. Spaces run with team members that are trans will fucking bin you off for it. Because you’re a massive transphobic prick.
You don’t give a fuck about trans people. You do something transphobic and get called out for it and your immediate response is to claim the people calling you out are all hysterical. You do exactly the same shit that misogynists that get called out by women do. All you care about is not breaking your little bubble, not doing a single tiny bit of critical thought about your behaviour, doubling down on “no, I’m a good person” because one tiny fucking bit of self-crit and listening to the actual marginalised groups you hurt without actively hurting them even fucking further in the process is too much to fucking ask of you. Stay away from trans people, you are dangerous to them.