I’m 100 percent with you here, I definitely feel like the IPFS “crowd” is trying to find a usefulness, and I hope they do. I’m all for decentralized, protected communication, storage and so on! If you need a proof of that just ask and I’ll deliver.
But it feels like they are still looking for that usefulness.
I’m not even here saying “prove me this or that”, but I do question the usability which I understand can be felt like an attack for some people.