@AnAutieAtUni@gremlinchild@actuallyautistic my mother tried to show me how to perform femininity, but she's not overly fem herself. As soon as I was old enough to pick my own clothes it's been mostly black jeans and quirky t-shirts which solves the problem of what colours work lol. I think I found my style at university when I was introduced to heavy metal and goth music. It hasn't changed much since 😜 I still don't do makeup, but I have worked out how to stop my curly hair looking frizzy.