18+ Am I 35m flirting?

So I’m a 35 year old male in a group where me and this girl joke around. She’s a bit “dominate” I guess and tries to be in control. However I don’t really take shit from people and will keep talking if she tells me to stop talking and say what I want. She talks about wanting to bang. Apparently me giving her shit (which I do with all of my friends) and not putting up with her means I’m flirting…am I flirting?

Also she keeps saying she “would me eat me alive” I honestly have no idea what that means, so if anyone knows please let me know.