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how do I accept I'll never know why any employer rejected me?

I’m finding the hard way that finding another job is a grind: you invest time reading what they want to hire, you write a CV and an application.

Most of the time you don’t get an answer, meaning you are that irrelevant to them. Most of these times it is YOU the one who has to ask if they decided for or against. On the limited times they write you back, it’s a computed generated BS polite rejection letter.

I asked one of them how many candidates they considered and why they rejected me, but that only made them send me another computer generated letter.

I’d like to know how close I was and in what ways I can become a more interesting candidate, but nobody is going to give me a realistic answer.

It sucks having to need them more than they need you. And I should consider me lucky, because I have a job, but jesus christ, I feel for those who have to do this without stable income or a family that offers them a place to stay…

xmunk ,

Because employers are opaque and their evaluation of you isn’t something that should be important to you. They’re not giving you a clear response oftentimes because they want to avoid legal issues.

crashfrog ,

You don’t get “rejected”, they just hire someone who isn’t you.

Lost_My_Mind ,

New stratagy…apply to the same company 400 times. With 400 different aliases. With 400 different disguises.

Exaust them with competition all looking for the same job. Which drowns out the 20 or so candidates. And then you just need to start a new life under your new name. Easy peasy.

Except not easy at all. It’s actually incredibly complicated keeping each character seperate, and remembering which accients to use, and then commiting to the bit for the next 60 years.

some_guy ,

Giving you feedback opens them up to liability if you sue.

Mojave ,

Not being dickheads when hire people make suing unnecessary

RedditWanderer ,

Shiit so many comments here.

If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment

ogler ,

the good news is it’s very easy to get some practice

Grimy ,

I make sure to always assume it was nepotism and my confidence remains sky high no matter how long I stay unemployed. It just works.

jonne ,

Until you get rejected for a job at your own dad’s company.

11111one11111 ,

Lol why would anyone fuckin hire someone that bitches about the basics of finding, applying and following up on new job interviews.

“I feel for those who have to do this without stable income or a family that offers them a place to stay…”

It’s common sense to most non-pampered people who don’t expect people to wait on every one of their super bitchy complaints to just take a job beneath their qualification as a bridge the gap income while putting in the work to find their right employer to build their career with.

Sc00ter ,

I’d like to know … how to be a more interesting candidate

Homie is just trying to be better and being frustrated they aren’t getting feedback on how to be better

AlecSadler ,

I straight up ask any job I apply and interview with why they didn’t proceed. One time they were actually taken back and ended up hiring me (after some convo).

If a company cannot communicate to you why you didn’t make the cut, they’re a shitty company and not worth working for. I realize that’s easier said than done to swallow, but it’s true.

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