I really wish the Linux community would do a better job of separating the software updates from the core operating system and user space apps. I feel like most distros do the ‘move fast and break things’ approach, even if that isn’t what they intended to do. I forget which distro it was, but they tried replacing X11 with Wayland way before the other distros, and IIRC, they had to revert everyone back to X11. This type of thing cannot be managed by regular users.
Imagine if you had to understand how 90% of every car part worked in order to drive a car, and if you don’t understand something you ask for help and everyone ridicules you because they are mechanics.