The problem is A) we are all small servers and will be overwhelmed by large instances B) threads, meta, Microsoft(or whoever) have a goal that is contrary to “surfing, meeting up and sharing”, its literally exclusively to make money out of it all (cue predatory algorithms). Their sole interest is making money. Only that does interest them. They don’t care about anything else, even if they have to pretend to “Love the Fediverse 💖💜💙” or “let’s try 😘 if you don’t like it just stop❤️❤️❤️!”, we love LGBT too “🥳🎉❤️💛💚💙💜” or whatever.
If you don’t see how they are going to do it, worry not, they have tens of thousands of paid people who’s sole interest/obligation/job is monetising.
It won’t be enough but block that shit right now or we’ll be in a worse situation.