If I want to share a cool link with someone who has an account but is not yet active, I have to:
ascertain their instance if they are on the site
visit their instance on a browser
search their instance for the post I want to share
On centralized platforms I can hit the “share” button the moment I find something interesting. When I do, I will receive a single link that will work for all users of the service.
Granted (because the platform then harasses the user who follows the link, trying to annoy them into getting an account and/or logging in so that it can more accurately harvest their data) it’s not a ton better centralized.
But it does make it extra difficult to evangelize this way. I convinced a friend to get an account, and yet when I shared a link with him (without taking the above steps), he sent back a screenshot of the banner telling him he wasn’t logged in.
I’d like an easier way to pull the uninitiated into a conversation occurring on this network of sites.