I will counter that the definition of intelligence is needed. Yours OP seems to be emo intelligence, maybe social intelligence. One can be very intelligent in other areas while not within these.
My quality would be a person’s ability to abstract and understand subjects through inference and intuition; to see all the layers of bigger pictures and the uncertainty of truth when contextualized.
In many ways, I fail at my own stupid, but it is a striving in life. After all, what use are achievable goals.
Stupid is subjective, circumstantial, and non binary.