A friend of mine had a “boyfriend” arrested for what, I never fully believed. He asked her to visit, warning her she would have to sign all sorts of stuff and likely be patted down. He started off full speed with “if you love me, you’ll visit me several times a week” kind of crap.
They had gone on two dates 🙃
She actually thought about visiting him once before snapping back to reality and ghosting him. Fortunately, he didn’t even have her address. He might not have even been confident on her last name, she never heard from him again.