Nobody can help feel like a salesman or an evangelist for trying to get some people to go elsewhere that is a net positive for their sanity or privacy.
I've stopped trying to convince people to give up Facebook. If they're gonna be on it and want to be glued to it, then fine. I just don't want to hear anyone cry about how they haven't heard from me for X amount of time because I was the one that decided to delete or deactivate it.