I mean this is moving away from the point of the technology talk, but the words you’re using says a lot. Words like intruding, without invitation, annoying people, deciding that people don’t want to talk to you for them. It’s like you view social interaction as putting an undue burden on to people. It’s like you’re deciding you’re unlikeable for them. Thinking stuff like that affects your body language, your words, how you say things. On top of your appearance and all that too. You got to work on your internal battles first and realize you’re not being a burden talking to someone. Did you think that when replying to me, or care what I think about you? Hopefully not. Channel that same energy irl. The difference is, rejection irl definitely hurts more then being called cringe thru online text