I will definitely do that. My mom is very much on the side of A’s mom and wants to bury everything. But I think my dad will see reason if I explain what I explained here.
The other option is to ask for contact information without saying the real reason why. Or ask another friend. I’ll bet I can get it without raising any unnecessary flags. I’m not afraid of being shunned. I’ll do anything I have to. I’m afraid of people telling each other not to give me the contact info, making it that much harder to get it.