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_number8_ , to memes in Therapy's getting too expensive

similarly, it really irritates when people tiptoe around giving ‘medical advice’ online or scold people for asking mental health questions in a forum – which is designed for people to commiserate and share advice. ‘the doctor’ is inaccessible to many people for many reasons; it’s way less of a challenge to get out sensitive thoughts by typing online to peers vs asking A Doctor and getting a Professional Reply about it

Draegur , to memes in All the weird shit happens on nights

this is so fucking true holy shit

i work the night shift and every time day shift comes back in, everything’s settled and quiet, everything’s streamlined and ready.

When 2nd shift comes in (we actually have 3 shifts, and overnight is 3rd) it’s UTTER CHAOS

db2 ,

Here’s one I know a few of you will be familiar with: 1st breaks a machine and can’t run product leaving it for night. Night fixes the machine and runs the orders but has to re-break the machine before 1st comes in or risk getting fired for fixing it and being productive.

Master ,

Pull the god pin at the end of every shift. Dont tell management!

Wogi ,

Our third shift is all maintenance, no production, do they do their preventative stuff and nothing really happens. 1st comes in to a well lubricated factory, promptly fucks everything up and passes their problems on to second.

And every day the cycle begins anew.

ChihuahuaOfDoom , to memes in All the weird shit happens on nights

The thing I hated most on night shift was, if something was screwed up on day shift and was still an issue when I came in, they would pass it off; but, if something was screwed up at the end of my shift, I had to stay until it was resolved, sometimes for hours.

Track_Shovel OP ,

That’s shitty.

I hated the 3 am witching hour. We had to make decisions as consultants. 3 am rolls around and you question everything

psycho_driver ,

I just want to fall asleep from 3-5. Doesn’t matter if I slept all day and got up at 10:30PM.

hogunner ,

I had a coworker who used to tell customers he was working on their issue and to call him back after 4pm. His shift ended at 2pm.

itsgroundhogdayagain , (edited ) to memes in All the weird shit happens on nights

night shift would always run out and leave a steaming turd in our laps.

ChihuahuaOfDoom ,

Exact opposite where I worked.

itsgroundhogdayagain ,

maybe we were coworkers. days always blamed nights and nights always blamed days.

DeepFriedDresden ,

That's literally how every place with a night shift operates.

Selmafudd ,

That’s literally every place with more than 1 shift or department, it’s easy to blame coworkers instead of management for running an understaffed and undertrained op

SnowBunting ,

This. I wish management would hire more instead of running on a skeleton crew. What happens when people get sick, go on vacation or quit? Hell.

Selmafudd ,

When peole get sick you get to blame them because you have to pick up the slack! It’s a win win for management

psycho_driver ,

This is the one true way.

flipthetube , to memes in Therapy's getting too expensive

Thanks Newsom!

j_roby OP ,

Oregon be holding it down tho!

flipthetube ,

I mean it’s easier to find than a pack of menthol cigarettes where I am but I’m still looking forward to mainstream acceptance of the benefits of psychedelics.

Keep doing your thing up there!

Seraph , to memes in Therapy's getting too expensive
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Where and what are you getting that is only $5 but lasts 12 hours?

can ,

LSD? Though 12h is a bit of an exaggeration.

RamSwamson ,

Yeah $5 isn’t realistic. I would say it’s more like $10-$15

can ,

$10 CAD for a tab has been standard here for a while.

RamSwamson ,

I was referring to the 12hr trip. So in maple dollars we’re talkin $20-$30?

tryptaminev ,

LSD is active for 10-12 hours. Usually the effects peak around 2-4 hours and then slowly get less, but they are still very much there.

Manifish_Destiny ,

LSA?

sicarius ,

I get them £3.60 a tab.
Helps to buy them in bulk. I’ll buy 25 at a time and that ‘should’ last me and the wife the year.

j_roby OP ,
Godric , to memes in All the weird shit happens on nights

Night shift:

Uneventful, the muggers slumber

Day shift:

Dear God the crackheads

trailing9 , to memes in Therapy's getting too expensive

Why is there no option to talk to a third world person for $5 and make it a win for everybody? There is no western monopoly on psychology.

can ,

I’d feel a little bad complaining about my problems to someone working for so little.

trailing9 , (edited )

A valid feeling as long as they make little.

Do you know PPP? You make little if you cannot resolve your psychological problems while they can rise a family.

If they earn more than their neighbors and can send their children to good schools, everybody wins.

*edit: made reply friendlier

freebee ,

One might actually choose the slightly more expensive fair trade t-shirt after such a conversation?

can ,

Secondhand all the way

Godric ,

“I will use this $5 to feed my starving family for the next week, what troubles you my Western Child?”

“Damn Doc, couldn’t be me, I spend that on a bag of chips. Doc, I feel better already for not taking such an L, you have a good one 💯”

trailing9 , (edited )

A valid problem.

If it is that dire then the reality is that if you don’t call, the children will die. But it’s not awkward because you will never know if you don’t use the service.

The third world only earns more if we buy services back.

If you feel bad that the family starves you can still pay more. But people understand PPP. Your life will be worse than theirs. You paid for chips while they had a real meal.

*edited to remove some snark

driving_crooner ,
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I don’t know if you can threat people of different cultures in psychology. Like, for example, an Indian therapist is not going to understand the problems an American have because the culture of both are pretty different, and the solutions the therapist propose maybe dosen’t make sense on an American context. Imagine trying to explain to a non American therapist that you have anxiety of being shooted on school or in a traffic incident, that kind of things are pretty foreign for the majority of the rest of the world, even for third world countries.

trailing9 ,

If a therapist cannot look beyond culture how will they understand what creates the problems in somebody’s life? To get canned answers, a book is enough.

Instigate ,

Even within nations, particularly multicultural nations, it’s common to have psychologists who specialise in specific cultures to provide the most appropriate advice. When I studied psychology in Uni we did a segment on psychological differences across cultures and they’re really quite stark. I don’t know enough about Japanese culture to be able to counsel a suicidal salaryman, but I can definitely help others who share my culture look after their mental health.

There are no known psychological truths across cultures. Because our culture heavily impacts our psychology, the two tend to covary. No one therapist can give quality advice to an Anglo farmer, a Sentinelese woman, a Siberian child and a Moroccan man. The cultural contexts just vary too wildly.

trailing9 ,

Not an expert but this sounds like a behavioral school of thought. It’s a strong statement that there are no psychological truths across cultures. Can you recommend a source where I can learn more about that?

Shouldn’t at least psychoanalysts be able to work across cultures?

But even if knowledge of a culture is needed, there is still the possibility to learn it. Additionally, a view from outside could also be an advantage. Other cultures can have answers to our problems.

Instigate ,

I don’t know of any publications that clearly state that there are no universal psychological truths across cultures, but I am yet to find any reputable evidence that there are universal psychological truths across cultures. Hence it’s the null hypothesis that hasn’t been disproven. If it can be disproven, I’d gladly change my assertion, but it’s impossible to prove a negative like this because it is the null hypothesis - it can only be disproven.

Nothing can really be properly proved in psychology anyway because of how soft the science is but also because of the changing nature of the influence of culture on psychology. Even within the same nation or peoples, culture also varies over time and so psychology is always playing catch-up. Social media related mental health issues are a great example - a psychologist who’s been plucked from 1970 and dropped into 2023 would have no idea how to counsel someone on that issue because it’s an entirely foreign concept to them.

Psychologists can absolutely learn and become experts in other cultures, but I think it’s beyond the scope of a single human being to become an expert in every single cultural context that exists. They often become experts in the cultures relevant to them - for example, trying to learn the differences between city/regional/rural issues, trying to understand the needs of LGBTQIA+ people, or learning to better understand CALD communities they’re based in/near.

trailing9 ,

Thanks for your long answer.

How about repetition compulsion?

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Repetition_compulsion

Isn’t that universal?

For the service to work, the psychologists don’t have to learn all cultures. They can split the necessary specialization among themselves.

Instigate ,

It may be universal, I’m not sure. I’ve not read any information able to establish that. There are indigenous tribes of people who are not integrated into the global world - we can’t know their psychology as we can’t study them.

trailing9 ,

Right. For the service to work it would be enough if people who live in cities have comparable mental structures.

Instigate ,

Sure, but someone who lives in Addis Ababa probably doesn’t have the cultural knowledge to give adequate therapy to someone in Pyongyang, despite them both being located in cities.

Could someone in London counsel someone in New York? Probably, because the cultures are quite similar and share a root ethnicity and language. But that Londonian probably won’t have as much luck counselling someone in Ho Chi Minh.

trailing9 ,

I am out of my depth to add anything meaningful. I personally believe that the human experience is universal. E. g. soldiers suffer on both sides of all wars. For sure it is more difficult to gain trust and openness if there are cultural differences. But the emotional conflicts that come with war will be the same.

Instigate ,

Will the experience of war victims resonate with the victors of that war? Will the victors understand the oppressed and be able to prove their position with adequate psychology? Does the psychology of an occupied people differ from the psychology from the oppressors? Does a person whose culture has been stripped from them require the same counsel as those who believes that illegally occupied territories are their’s?

Many confounding variables exist here that may interact with being militarily oppressed, and therefore comparisons between the two sides are incomparable. I don’t have the answers to these questions. I wish I did, because then I’d be able to secure facts. In this situation the only secure facts are that both sides have committed atrocities and crimes against humanity.

trailing9 ,

Most countries win a war and lose a war, so experiences can be shared. But among all the countries it could also be possible to pair the winners with the winners and the losers with the losers. But I would expect that it would only be needed to avoid direct conflicting parties.

PotjiePig ,

It exists. But you will encounter a few issues:

  1. $5 is not very much money in 3rd world countries either. If you want to speak to someone with a doctorate you can expect to pay a little more than that.
  2. health insurance almost certainly won’t cover any percentage of a session with a therapist that isn’t on their books
  3. tax. A healthcare professional is generally looking after their own books too. So the only way they will bother dealing with Americans is wmthe incentive of earning in dollars anyway
  4. like others have said, culture differences will play a role in the kind of care you will receive.
  5. recommends for a psychiatrist or meds will need a prescription and that won’t work across borders. You will need to get referred locally too.
  6. a licensed therapist may not be licensed in your country, or worse, may be a hack or a scammer

But it most certainly exists. I’ve got a mate that treats people overseas. I believe there’s also an app that connects you with someone available too. Betterhelp, Talkspace to name a few.

trailing9 ,

Thanks for the references.

LesserAbe ,

Chat roulette

empireOfLove ,
jimmydoreisalefty , to memes in Therapy's getting too expensive

edit: removed link on yt title


Shits expensive, yoooo.


Mac Miller - Self Care

www.youtube.com/watch?v=SsKT0s5J8ko


George Carlin on why “It’s important not to give a shit”

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j_roby , to memes in All the weird shit happens on nights

I have so many questions…

Designate6361 , to memes in I might bring down captialism, but the room is a Sysphean task
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Yes!! My influence has finally coming full circle

Track_Shovel OP ,

These are yours? I love them

Designate6361 ,
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Nah I didn’t make them I just started posting them

db2 , to memes in All the weird shit happens on nights

Based on your title I don’t think you understand the meme you posted.

interolivary ,
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Must be on the day shift

The_Hideous_Orgalorg , to memes in All the weird shit happens on nights

Shouldn’t the titles be the other way around?

serpentofnumbers ,

yes, probably

kambusha ,

No time to explain! Grab a cactus!

Coasting0942 ,

This meme might only resonate with half of the night shifters. Possible that night shift is crazy and day shift is uneventful.

Shower given people do crazy shit at night with less mental energy, I find this meme correct

Bbbbbbbbbbb ,

Title is fine, the image text needs to be swapped

GreenPlasticSushiGrass ,

Depends on the job, I guess. Back in my shift work days the mids were pretty chill.

son_named_bort , to memes in when someone starts reminding me how old some of my favorite things from when I was younger are

If you’re old enough to have watched Aqua Teen Hunger Force when it was new, then you may be 30 or 40 years old.

LemmyFeed ,

Why you gotta do me like that. Damn.

victron ,
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:(

JPSound ,

I miss those days of being 18, smoking some shitty weed on the couch and settling in for a new episode of ATHF. And after 20 more spirit journey formation anniversaries later, the weed has gotten much better but not AS or TV in general. That was the golden area. I dont think I’ve ever been as excited to watch a movie at the theaters since the ATHF movie. What a masterpiece.

MelastSB , to memes in Sick man of Europe

THEN THE WINGED HUSSARS ARRIVED!

hardware26 ,

Is this an AOE2 reference or is it historically correct? I knew I should not have learnt history from games.

hh93 ,

It’s a Sabaton song

hardware26 ,

I was way off:)

tilcica ,

i recommend listening to it. its great :D

hardware26 ,

It was, thanks

DmMacniel ,

COMING DOWN THE MOUNTAIN SIDE

I miss the U/waitingtobetriggered bot on Reddit :/

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