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radioactiveradio , to memes in Breakfasts from around the world!

Spain: bull horns and dirt.

traveler , to memes in As an owner of children, I approve this message

If you’re going to travel, use ANC headphones instead of complaining about people’s children.

miz_nocturnal ,
@miz_nocturnal@lemmy.ca avatar

Agreed. I don’t have kids and I feel that it’s my responsibility to bring earplugs and headphones if I want a quiet flight.

traveler ,

I don’t have kids either, but I know having them isn’t easy at all, specially having them stuck in a plane for hours.

minikieff ,

ANC headphones don’t work against shrieking cum pets.

mnemonicmonkeys ,

Or maybe people shouldn’t bring toddlers on a plane. You don’t need a plane to have a perfectly fine vacation.

jcit878 ,

your second sentence is a solution for you too

mnemonicmonkeys ,

As if that’s a good reason to make a flight completely miserable

jcit878 ,

so you want freedom to fly but think others don’t. A+ hypocrisy

mnemonicmonkeys ,

You know how everyone has the right to free speech, but saying some things makes them an asshole? Same situation. Legally you’re allowed to bring babies on a plane to to a movie theater, but doing so makes you an asshole.

If you can’t understand that then you’re an entitled prick.

jcit878 ,

nah I just think complaining about I makes someone a wanker

Honytawk ,

If the option is between:

“Kicking out everyone except for the bad parent with noisy children”

or

“Kicking out the bad parent with the noisy children”

I know which option I would pick.

AeroLemming ,

That’s not how active noise cancelling works. Any difference in sound you may notice is either due to the headphones simply having good padding or due to the noise cancellation making things seem quieter in general because it will be effective at cancelling out the plane’s engines.

gorysubparbagel , to lemmyshitpost in Chonkasaurus

There’s a great Sam o nella video about this.

Invidious link to it: vid.puffyan.us/watch?v=XKRW1zgkCVc

MooseBoys , to linux in Windows 11 vs Linux supported HW

Linux has better support for the long tail of hardware. Windows has better support for bleeding-edge hardware. The main reason for this is money.

nik282000 ,
@nik282000@lemmy.ml avatar

Except for my AMD 1800x that was 4 years old when W11 launched and not supported.

MooseBoys ,

I hate to break it to you but 4 years old is nowhere close to “bleeding edge” when it comes to PC hardware.

nik282000 ,
@nik282000@lemmy.ml avatar

It’s also not obsolete.

MooseBoys ,

That’s kind of my point. Linux supports it, but Windows doesn’t anymore. Why? Money - OEMs aren’t selling them anymore, so why spend time to support new features on them? On the flip side, the heterogeneous chiplet structure of the 7950X3D was supported on Windows from day 1, while on Linux the scheduler is still unaware of the different perf characteristics to this day. Why? Same answer - money. AMD doesn’t make money selling 7950X3D on Linux, so they’re not going to spend time writing a kernel driver to optimize perf on it.

halo5 ,

the 7950X3D was supported on Windows from day 1, while on Linux the scheduler is still unaware of the different perf characteristics to this day.

That may be true, but with the ridiculous increase in performance for this CPU due to the massive amount of L3 cache (X3D), I don’t care. I just replaced a Linux compute node with an Intel Xeon Silver compute node with a custom built Linux node that features the 7950X3D, and I’m benchmarking now at over twice the speed (CFD-type work)! Not bad for a $650 consumer CPU. The difference between 128MB and 12MB of L3 cache is apparently pretty huge, from what I’m seeing. I think it’s important to note that L3 cache can be shared across CPU cores.

MooseBoys ,

The problem is that only half of the chiplets have access to the large cache. If the scheduler isn’t aware of that and a lot of data is shared across cores (as in the case for many games), you’ll miss out on most of that performance. AMD wrote a driver for Windows to help optimally schedule threads with high cache intensity to the expanded cache chiplets, but they didn’t do it for Linux. If your workload is not very chatty between cores, and threads don’t need to synchronize at 60Hz, it won’t matter as much. But for game workloads, it makes a big difference, and can actually result in worse performance than the homogenous chiplet design of the mid-tier 7800X3D if you get it wrong.

M68040 , to linux in Windows 11 vs Linux supported HW
@M68040@hexbear.net avatar

Been meaning to transition to a distro with a focus on being pretty low maintainance yet not too top heavy, leaving Windows to a VM on my Proxmox server. Haven’t gotten around to it yet, since I’d need to get the server a dedicated graphics card.

Could just use WINE, I suppose, but I’m assuming it’s still as rough as it was last time I messed with it twelve years ago.

Sethayy ,

Yep, absolutely nothing has changed in the past 12 years.

Valve joined the scene but they just cracked a beer with the devs and are gonna wait their own 12

silent_water ,
@silent_water@hexbear.net avatar

more stuff just works, if it doesn’t, you might be able to fix it but it’s rough.

Beeko , to memes in As an owner of children, I approve this message

This ass taking weird selfies in his first class seat looks so entitled

jcit878 ,

not gonna lie that guy has an incredibly punchable face

doom_and_gloom , (edited )
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  • jcit878 ,

    there are quite a few people that have faces that just have a “punch me” written on them. he is one. I am not a violent person

    skycat , to memes in Team Xavier

    Emotional damage

    mister_monster , to memes in As an owner of children, I approve this message

    I’m gonna be unapologetically that person one day. Get into a tube full of stinky humans and complain that babies exist in the world. People need to get over themselves.

    DrM ,

    Especially now that Noise Cancelling headphones are everywhere and work as good as they do. Since I’ve got my Sony headphones a crying infant becomes only a really minor inconvenience

    Harrison ,

    While this reads like a Sony advert, I have to agree.

    MaoWasRight ,

    Children don’t only make noise. So noise canceling headphones only handle one possibility of the outcomes.

    MissJinx ,
    @MissJinx@lemmy.world avatar

    Tbf I don’t think babies are the worst. They cry, but that’s it. The kids that can talk walk and kick you are. And also let’s always remember that the major anger is not about the kids but the lazy parents that think everyone else should suffer so that THEY don’t have to deal with it.

    mister_monster ,

    Well, someone not watching their kid while the kid harasses or kicks you is a different story.

    MissJinx ,
    @MissJinx@lemmy.world avatar

    99% of the time that’s the case

    Colour_me_triggered , to memes in As an owner of children, I approve this message

    Yeah ok I’ll just fucking have my kids put down at the vet before I go on holiday! Get a fucking grip!

    Mercival ,

    Honestly? You should.

    thorbot ,

    Thanks, Satan!

    oregoncom ,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    They should put soulless freaks like you down. Having empathy for literal babies is a basic requirement for a human being.

    riceandbeans161 ,

    don’t go on holiday if you have cum pets. You chose that when you couldn’t keep it in your pants.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    You think you’re more deserving of a holiday just because you’re shooting blanks?

    riceandbeans161 ,

    i stay quiet and read my book and don’t annoy the entire plane/train/bus.

    MrLuemasG , (edited )

    You’re annoying the entirety of lemmy instead

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    I’m here on lemmy, and I think he right fine. Shit, I should buy him a beer. It’s the baby’s that annoy, aaaand their entitled parents.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    Do you want a medal?

    JamesConeZone ,
    @JamesConeZone@hexbear.net avatar

    You are annoying the entire forum right now. You are outsourcing your shittiness online because you are deeply unwell and need an outlet

    mnemonicmonkeys ,

    You do realize you don’t have to take a plane to go on vacation, right? It won’t kill you to not take a plane for a couple of years

    Hupf ,

    One kind of people makes humanity not go extinct in the near future.

    toxicbubble ,

    humans are an overpopulated and invasive species, there are millions of human children waiting to be fostered

    ArcticLynx ,

    b-but muh genes

    ArbitraryValue ,

    Genetics isn’t destiny, but a lot of important traits are highly heritable. Consider for example the heritability of IQ. I can see why someone who considers him or herself a good specimen would want children more like him or herself that like the sort of person whose children end up needing to be adopted.

    ArcticLynx ,

    yeah that actually makes sense

    ArbitraryValue ,

    Eh, I’m mortal anyway. I don’t benefit from other people’s annoying offspring being around after I’m gone.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    And they don’t benefit from your presence now, or in the future, or at any point actually.

    ArbitraryValue ,

    Yeah, that’s why I leave them alone and I want them to leave me alone.

    autismdragon ,
    @autismdragon@hexbear.net avatar

    cum pets

    cringe

    oregoncom ,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    Just because you’re so ugly nobody would ever reproduce with you doesn’t give you excuse to whine about children all the time. Go back to r/childfree you soulless redditor.

    MYCOOLNEJM ,
    @MYCOOLNEJM@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Were you forced to have kids at gunpoint?

    Logical solution to this is to wait until your kid grows up a little bit and stops crying for no fucking reason. You can still travel with your toddler if you really want to, but use your own car. I don’t get the reason to take a kid this young, to travel with you, since he’s not going to remember anything anyway

    hihello ,

    People have families lol

    MYCOOLNEJM ,
    @MYCOOLNEJM@sh.itjust.works avatar

    We all have families…

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    I live in Norway. It’s my constitutional right to have 5 weeks of paid holiday a year (excluding public holidays) whether or not I have children. Driving isn’t viable as it would take several days just to get to a ferry that leaves Norway. Crying children are a part of flying, get used to it.

    MYCOOLNEJM ,
    @MYCOOLNEJM@sh.itjust.works avatar

    You can have holidays in the same country that you live you know… Since you have a small child, it would be best to take care of him, instead of flying around in planes

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    A couple of hours in a plane is less stressful for a toddler than several days in a car seat I assure you.

    MYCOOLNEJM ,
    @MYCOOLNEJM@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Probably yeah, but also less stressful would be to plan your exotic seaside resort vacation in two years, when the little spawn of satan is not prone to crying for reasons classified.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    Doesn’t mean you have to fly somewhere for a simple holiday.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    Yes I could drive a day and go camping in northern Scandinavia and get eaten alive by mosquitoes the size of sparrow hawks.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    Could you? Then we can find that child a better parent.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    Children* they enjoy their holidays in Spain.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    It’s a baby, baby don’t know, baby don’t care. YOU want time in Spain. Ffs

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    No I fucking hate the sun. If I enjoyed the beach, I wouldn’t live in Norway.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    This broke me. You win. Lol. Best answer.

    zloubida , (edited )
    @zloubida@lemmy.world avatar

    Are you forced to take a plane at gunpoint?

    Logical solution to this is to use your own means of transportation in order to be sure to be alone if you don’t like children. You can still take a plane if you really want to, but use your own plane. I don’t get the reason to take public means of transportation, since there will always be other people in them anyway.

    thorbot ,

    Oh right I’ll just take one of my many planes that I have just fucking lying around

    zloubida ,
    @zloubida@lemmy.world avatar

    It was an answer to Mycoolnejm, not to you ^^

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    You realise that some people live in places where that isn’t possible. I have to drive for about 10 hours to not be in the Arctic anymore.

    MYCOOLNEJM ,
    @MYCOOLNEJM@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Lol, allright let me just sit with my fucking toddler right next to you in a 6 hour flight. I coud’ve just waiter two years until he’s old enough to not cry at random shit to take him to Spain, but fuck ya’ll. I’m not locked in here with you, you’re locked in here with me and my toddler

    Landrin201 ,
    @Landrin201@lemmy.ml avatar

    90% of your profile’s comments are in this thread

    Either you seriously hate children to a ridiculous degree- in which case you need to see a therapist because this shit ain’t healthy- or you’re a troll.

    I’m going with troll.

    MYCOOLNEJM ,
    @MYCOOLNEJM@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Yes, because I disagree, I automatically hate children and I’m brain damaged. Very smart argument 👍. And I just started commenting, so of course all of my comments are going to be here, since I’m arguing with you all and your lame ass excusees

    thorbot ,

    Yes I’ll just load my kids up into the car and drive across the fucking ocean to see my family.

    mnemonicmonkeys ,

    It won’t kill you to not go to Norway for a couple of years

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    I live in Norway. But sometimes it’s nice to leave for a few weeks.

    Honytawk ,

    It is also nice to not be on a plane with crying kids.

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    So buy your own plane…

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    That would solve a lot of problems… You should get on that.

    scubbo ,

    Because, as we all know, the only way of travelling across the ocean is by plane.

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  • Honytawk ,

    It doesn’t take a month to travel by ship.

    Greta could do it in less than 2 weeks. And that was in a sailboat.

    itsJoelle ,

    Right?

    I just fly Delta cause parents can’t afford it 🤷 Problem solved.

    TheRealKuni ,

    I miss Delta. I always flew Delta, but my wife likes to be frugal.

    airlinefood ,

    Don’t be overdramatic. You’re allowed to travel but you’ve gotta accept that no one’s happy to see you.

    Lunic ,

    Well good, I accepted that long before I ever had kids!

    oregoncom ,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    The only people I’m not happy to see are insufferable r/childfree redditors who hate on literal children. If you hate babies there is something wrong with your brain.

    airlinefood ,

    I like kids, I don’t like sitting in a small metal box with the unavoidable sound of crying for hours though. Flying sucks enough as it is.

    Twink ,
    @Twink@hexbear.net avatar

    I’m glad you’re speaking up. This isn’t a black and white situation. Sometimes I’d travel by plane to a surgery or from one, was already in a lot of pain and sensitive and having a child scream through it all gave me panic attacks. When I’m on my best, I don’t mind but I’m disheartened by the absolute disregard people attacking those who speak up against children on planes have towards people with misophonia, whatever it may be induced by. Idk where those people get noise canceling earphones and earplugs to have the noise of children screaming non stop next to you be blocked by them.

    BlackNo1 ,

    yah please do no one wants your little shits around.

    Swedneck , to lemmyshitpost in Chonkasaurus
    @Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

    the scientific name for gorilla is “gorilla gorilla” so i think that ship sailed before sailing was invented

    FlyingSquid ,
    @FlyingSquid@lemmy.world avatar

    And American Buffalo are “bison bison.”

    DontNoodles ,

    I don’t know what it actually means but the scientific name of Indian Cobra is Naja naja and in Hindi “naja” means “Don’t go”, which seems very apt.

    quicksand ,

    An excellent warning sign. Fuck looking at stripes, the Indians get it

    lowleveldata , to memes in I will bear your burdens forever

    My phone that has 512GB internal storage and a SD card slot be like

    Neil , to linux in Windows 11 vs Linux supported HW
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  • MenacingPerson ,

    You need better eyesight then, because there are more than 2 in that photo

    Shady_Shiroe ,
    @Shady_Shiroe@lemmy.world avatar

    He was talking about the 2 windows users

    PseudoSpock , to memes in As an owner of children, I approve this message
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    Please don’t fly with your kids, especially babies, and if you do, please for the love of all that might be holy, don’t do it in business and first class!

    Colour_me_triggered ,

    Rich people deserve to suffer. Always fly first class with your kids and give them caffeine pills before the flight.

    GreenMario ,

    Based and energy pilled.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    People in business class or first class are almost never rich. Sky mile programs, travel credit card point programs, gaming point relationships between airlines and affiliates can make business and first quite affordable. And for when it can’t be affordable, if someone is paying for it, it’s not usually for luxury. I try to always send my wife at least business class so she is treated MUCH more as a human being than she normally has been in coach, as she is a minority and disabled. Rich people charter planes or own them. Those in business class are usually people who just plan ahead better than you. And if you’re jealous of that, then you’re a jealous piece of something.

    abc ,
    @abc@hexbear.net avatar

    People in business class or first class are almost never rich. Sky mile programs, travel credit card point programs, gaming point relationships between airlines and affiliates can make business and first quite affordable.

    person who flies so much they are able to game point relationships between airlines and affiliates: actually I am living in poverty and not what you’d call rich. 🤡 🤡 🤡

    ???

    Firipu ,
    @Firipu@startrek.website avatar

    Please don’t leave your house, and if you do, please for the love that might be holy don’t do it in areas actually inhabited by people.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    Please tell that to parents who can’t keep their kids polite in public. Being a child is not an excuse to be a monster.

    kneel_before_yakub ,
    @kneel_before_yakub@hexbear.net avatar

    Babies cry. It’s what they fucking do, you misanthrope

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    That’s why you keep them at home.

    oregoncom ,
    @oregoncom@hexbear.net avatar

    Your parents not letting you go outside is why you grew up into a redditor manchild who whines about literal babies. Your presence is 1000% more irritating than any baby. I’d tell you to stay at home but you never leave the basement anyways.

    mister_monster ,

    I’m going to do it and then laugh at your annoyance.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    Up to you. May or may not go well for you. While I won’t do anything to you except an unkind look, you don’t know who else we’re flying with and what they might be going through. You really want to risk you or your child’s well being just be right? Have you seen the crazy’s on planes lately? I’ll tell you this, if someone does read you the riot act or worse, I sure as hell won’t come to your aid. And despite wanting to film such a happening to see you miserable or worse, I won’t, because I won’t want to contribute to giving you evidence you could use against your attacker(s). If you think it’s terrible I wouldn’t try to protect your baby, not my fault you were such a terrible parent that the child would have been better off being aborted than being your child.

    mister_monster ,

    If someone attacked me or my child on a plane I would fuck them up real bad.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    While we popcorn and watch your inflight entertainment.

    Honytawk ,

    Ah, so you are as unmannered as your kids, good to know.

    ShrimpsIsBugs ,

    Lol. I’m also not the biggest fan of children, but what are the parents supposed to do? Not having vacation? Leave them home alone? Throw them out the window on the drive to the airport?

    _CottonCandyUnicorn_ ,

    Don’t have vacations or visit family even if it’s for a wedding or funeral. Stay inside your house until your kids graduate high school to be sure. Having a life is not worth the possibility of inconveniencing other people for a few hours every so often. You’re ruining other people’s lives if you do so.

    riceandbeans161 ,

    get a sitter. If you can afford a holiday, budget for a sitter.

    Or don’t have holidays until the snot factories are old enough to behave if you can’t afford a sitter. You chose to have children.

    Firipu ,
    @Firipu@startrek.website avatar

    Let’s see who will pay for your retirement and medical care eventually… (unless if you live in that US hellscape ofcourse)

    CaptFeather ,

    If that’s all you’re having kids for please do not have kids.

    Firipu ,
    @Firipu@startrek.website avatar

    Oh yeah, one hundred percent. The only reason I got kids was to make sure they can take care of my retirement.

    Just as I’m taking care of my parents. I have totally absolutely 100% not broken off all contact with them because of their shitty behaviour. No sir, absolutely not.

    CrabLord ,
    @CrabLord@beehaw.org avatar

    Had me in the first half, not gonna lie.

    SuddenDownpour ,

    If you’re having kids with the express intent that they care for you when you’re old, you’re already doing it wrong.

    riceandbeans161 ,

    well most likely be dead before anyone under 30 reaches that age.

    Enigma ,

    Yes, because it’s perfectly normal to leave your young kids with strangers for a couple weeks while you go on holiday, or visit family.

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  • Enigma ,

    For a night, for a couple days maybe but for weeks? Hell no, that is not what babysitters are for. And you’re delusional if you think so. A parent who leaves their kids with a stranger for weeks is not a good parent and could be brought up on child abandonment charges.

    CaptFeather ,

    Then don’t go on vacation until they’re old enough to be well behaved lmao

    Enigma ,

    The same can be said for adults.

    CaptFeather ,

    Couldn’t agree more lol

    coaxil ,

    Why do you need to fly for vacation? When did flying for vacation become mandatory?

    Enigma ,

    It’s not. But it’s much easier to deal with kids on a 2hr flight than it is to deal with them on a multiple day drive. And just because I have kids doesn’t mean I have to choose the more difficult option. I say this as a parent who has driven across the country with my kids, multiple times.

    ArcticLynx ,

    But it’s much easier to deal with kids on a 2hr flight than it is to deal with them on a multiple day drive

    “I’ll make everyone’s flight miserable because I don’t want to experience the bad consequences of my choices”

    And just because I have kids doesn’t mean I have to choose the more difficult option.

    you did choose the more difficult option the moment you chose to have children. having children comes with inconveniences and because that’s your choice to have children you have to deal with the consequences, not others

    Enigma ,

    Lmao yes, I have to make my life more difficult because I chose to have kids. That makes perfect sense.

    ArcticLynx ,

    ‘your choices, your consequences’

    not ‘your choices, everyone else’s consqeuences’

    it isn’t that hard to understand is it? your entitlement is insane

    Enigma ,

    Lmao dude. Get off your high horse. Your comfort doesn’t trump mine and vice versa. If anyone is entitled here, it’s you, believing that parents have to always go out of their way to make sure everyone else is comfortable just because they have kids and you don’t.

    ArcticLynx ,

    parents have child => parents are inconvinienced by child => others who have nothing to do with parents and their child should be inconvenienced instead of the parents

    following your logic, complete strangers should have to pay the kindergarten for your child. after all just because you chose to have children doesn’t mean that you have to be inconvenienced (by paying money for it) and others don’t, right?

    Enigma ,

    First of all dipshit, you do pay for kindergarten. Via taxes. What are you, 12?

    Like I said, my comfort doesn’t trump yours and your comfort doesn’t trump mine. Either deal with the fact that kids will be on flights or stop flying. Or become a member of congress and try to pass a law barring kids from planes.

    ArcticLynx ,

    First of all dipshit, you do pay for kindergarten. Via taxes. What are you, 12?

    of course tax money is used to pay for kindergarten too but at least in my country you pay something like 15 euros per day yourself

    also, I could’ve said babysitter too. or clothes. or food. or something else, it doesn’t matter. my point still stands

    Like I said, my comfort doesn’t trump yours and your comfort doesn’t trump mine. Either deal with the fact that kids will be on flights or stop flying.

    Like I said, your choice your discomfort and my chioce my discomfort. Either deal with the fact that cartain choices have consequences or make different choices

    seriously tho, you’re making your self-made problem everyone else’s

    that’s like me burning my car and saying “yeah I made the choice to burn my car and I knew of the consequences, but why should only I have to pay for the damage and not others as well? their comfort doesn’t trump mine”

    coaxil ,

    You require a multiple days drive for a vacation?

    Enigma ,

    Oh, I was speaking for other people. I’ve never actually been on a vacation.

    CaptFeather ,

    They can pick a vacation where they don’t have to fly… They chose to have kids and that comes with a lot of baggage.

    veng ,

    Why would they care about your opinion enough to not go on holiday where they want? If you want to fly without the chance of noisy kids then fly first class, or better still, private jet.

    No? Can’t afford? Suck it up then lol, people are going to live their lives regardless of a bit of noise that you can easily cancel out with headphones.

    ArcticLynx ,

    No? Can’t afford? Suck it up then lol, people are going to live their lives regardless of a bit of noise that you can easily cancel out with headphones.

    hell yeah, fuck them poor people

    CaptFeather ,

    Lmao How about the parents suck it up and choose a different vacation where they’re not subjecting the public to their terrors? I didn’t choose to have kids, I should not have to put up with other people’s kids. Too many people have kids who have no business being parents.

    jcit878 ,

    last flight I was on had a crying kid and a guy who kept trying to slip booze into his coffee and had to be confronted several times.

    guess who was the most annoying one.

    point is, flying fucking sucks, most mature adults realise this and just get through it despite the discomfort. complaining about it like an entitled prick demanding certain people can’t fly is frankly pathetic

    CaptFeather ,

    Screaming children are half the reason flying sucks. If your kid does not do well in public, pick another vacation or have someone watch them. Part of the responsibility that comes with having kids.

    PseudoSpock ,
    @PseudoSpock@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

    Usually, yes. Stay home or have a sitter or nanny. If it’s a family emergency or tragedy, benedryl for the child before the flight. Do NOT change the child outside of the plane’s lavatory. Premium economy, not business class, as premium has some perks for bringing your baby, is more affordable than business class. Daytime flights if possible. Red-eye’s people want to sleep. Be prepared, binkies, blankets, diapers, quiet toys, etc. Try to fly when you will have the most energy, hard to parent if you yourself are sleeping from exhaustion. (not always a choice, we know.) Insure your flight. If the baby is sick, colic, or especially if it has inner ear problems, don’t go or again, arrange care for the child. No need to make the baby suffer, and in turn making you and everyone else miserable, too. Many people will not be kind if the child wasn’t feeling well and kept them up 14 hours, which will be hard on you in addition to your own exhaustion.

    foksmash ,

    If you have to fly business with the rest of the poors that can’t afford a private jet, you don’t get to complain.

    Flyberius ,
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    don’t do it in business and first class!

    Lol. If you’re wasting those sums of money to fly, I hope you do get noisy kids right next to you.

    PseudoSpock ,
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    Here are some reasons for business class and first class:

    • Certainly treated better by staff when flights are delayed or cancelled - They took excellent care of my wife and her food and lodging needs when her flight was disrupted by a volcanic eruption at her intended destination.
    • The airline lounge - food, drinks and comfortable places to wait while stuck at airports
    • More and heavier checked bag allowance - Super important if bringing things to family
    • Laying down on long international flights to sleep
    • Most importantly, if you are a person of colour or disabled, the staff treat you a hell of a lot better - Shouldn’t have to pay more to be treated like a human being, but on a lot of airlines, you do

    So it’s not a waste, especially when my wife is flying alone 7600km, 10,500km, and even 11,700km as both a person of colour and a disabled person to deal with family tragedies. For you to want to screw with people for that… Yeah, don’t care for you.

    Flyberius ,
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    There’s plenty of people who have to do all of that and don’t have crazy amounts of money to blast on a plane ticket. My heart is not bleeding. And all this over someone bringing a child on a plane.

    PseudoSpock ,
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    Children are usually fine. Let me be more specific. Babies. Babies are often a problem on flights. Often it’s because of the cabin pressure hurting their ears because of their under developed eustachian tubes. All babies? no. But a lot of them. Learn how to help manage the child’s ear pain if you must bring them. Otherwise, you’re just being mean to your baby.

    As for your plenty of people / heart not bleeding comment. Nice to meet you, Karen.

    raven ,

    What should people do exactly? FedEx their kids?

    Yes, PSA bring teething toys and gum if your child is old enough to help equalize their ear pressure that’s fine, but kids are people too and they have a right to travel with their parents. The flying experience is aggressively uncomfortable and kids complaining isn’t even the half of it.

    PseudoSpock ,
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    No. Just don’t go. You chose to raise a child, part of that includes not dragging them where they don’t belong until they are old grown enough to behave. If you have to go, arrange care for the child while you are gone if they aren’t mature enough yet. Bringing a baby on a plane says, “I refuse to pay money to take responsibility for my choosing to have a child, so I’ll bring it with me and put that burden on everyone trapped with me on a plane.” Gee thanks.

    Flyberius ,
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    Could you just not go instead?

    PseudoSpock ,
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    Funny.

    Adkml ,

    Thanks for explaining to everybody why you deserve to be treated better than everyone else because you have more money.

    PseudoSpock ,
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    I don’t. Paycheck to paycheck. Learn to use the tools of airline mile programs, credit cards with points, and airline mileage affiliate programs. Use your brain, not your money.

    Adkml ,

    K I did all that and decided with my brain I’m gonna bring my kid too and I don’t give a shit if the rich assholes in first class complain even if they insist they’re “paycheck to paycheck” after airing a list of grievances about how they hate having to interact with plebs on an airplane.

    I mean seriously you said in another post rich people own planes. If everybody who doesnt own a plane isn’t rich I’m gonna go ahead and say you’re completely out of touch.

    PseudoSpock ,
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    I said charter or own. Wealthy people often charter. Who said anything about interacting with plebs? This thread is about mother freaking babies on this mother freaking plane! :) Now, if you think the definition of plebeian is just someone who has a crotch goblin traveling with them, that’s a totally different problem for another post. Your assumption first class is only for the rich is in error. It might be someone with some savings, but very likely not rich. What is your definition of rich?

    Now, as to you being angry and just wanting to use your child to piss off other people, keep that doing that. See how that goes for ya. While rare, parents have gotten themselves banned from airlines for being terrible people. Let’s see if you fit that bill.

    dat_math ,

    Really putting the pseudo in pseudospock, there lol

    PseudoSpock ,
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    What, did you think I was the real McCoy? ;)

    SuddenDownpour ,

    I’m going to go with the very opposite opinion. Don’t fly with your kids, especially babies, but if you do, do it ONLY in business and first class. Working class people have enough shit without having to deal with your baby.

    PseudoSpock ,
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    Uh, we’re working class people who are paying to avoid your baby.

    taiyang , to memes in As an owner of children, I approve this message

    I have a dysfunctional baby. We took an 8 month old on a plane to Japan because of a family tragedy and she freaking got excited when we hit turbulence and when we landed. Five other babies lost their shit but my kids all giggling.

    Actually, she also lost her shit in a literal way, Jesus fucking Christ the amount of poop that came out after the pressure change or someone. Ain’t nobody talks about that but all babies shit their pants at landing— pretty sure.

    GreenMario ,

    Get her a dirt bike and a ramp. You may have a future stunt woman on your hands.

    merthyr1831 , to linux in Windows 11 vs Linux supported HW

    Windows requirements: sprawling list of unsupported hardware based on an arbitrary requirment for a security chip that doesn’t actually improve security at all

    Linux: CPU (optional)

    MonkderZweite ,

    I don’t think microcontrollers count as CPU, right? Do they have an ALU?

    nachtigall ,

    Yes they do. Microcontrollers contain a microprocessor that is optimized for branching instructions and already include memory and peripheral interfaces which are connected directly to the processor bus (opposed to general purpose CPUs).

    DestroyMegacorps ,

    As a person who has used linux i can confirm that my daughter runs linux

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