Moments of #actuallyautistic realization #3872: about 15yrs ago on learning that another mum used cloth nappies on her son I launched into a detailed analysis of all the different folds, esp wrt directional wee. She found it hilarious and kept up a commentary on it. She didn't mean to be cruel, we got on well, but I was yet again left with that feeling of 'oh shit, I've done it again and I have no idea what "it" is'. Now I know it was intensity and maybe a form of infodumping @actuallyautistic