Critical assessment of all information we have available to us isn't whataboutery, imo, and often means breaking down large chunks of information into digestible bits. If it's not acceptable for them to do it to us or their own, it's not acceptable for us to do it to ours, or our own, full stop. From my obviously limited perspective, there are very few who benefit from regular people infighting or fighting regular citizens of other nations, about this. The people benefitting from this aren't us regular people.