You can keep turning in circles and do adhoms but the fact remains that America ruined Afghanistan the last 20 years. Before that it was the Russians.
The current Afghanistan has been independent for a very little time and has inherited tonnes of problems from America ruining the country. The sanctions and aid restrictions also don’t help this.
I’m not sure why you’d even begin to disagree with these facts but seeing as your entire comment doesn’t address then I can only guess.