Can relate. I‘m pretty much on the opposite end of this situation. I have a home server, hosting a fair amount of apps and it’s pretty integrated and polished but still a lot of things I want to do, some crucial before I even think of opening ports in my router.
The issue for me is that my internet upload speed is trash allthough my provider is rather good.
So I‘m thinking of moving the opposite direction and hosting my stuff on a vps so that I can use it and maybe share stuff with friends without being kneecapped by my upload.
The obvious solution would be a fiber connection which is not available at my location yet (edge of a city in germany, hard to believe, I know).
But to answer your question: you could probably pet apache do something like that but I‘m absolutely the wrong person to tell you how as I don’t have any experience with apache. I can help you configure npm (nginx proxy manager) and dns records but thats about it in this department.
In any case, have a good one and hit me up if you want to discuss this further.