I appreciate the advice, and that sounds like a totes fab shirt you’re wearing.
I think part of it is that early in life, I wore a pink tuxedo to a wedding. It was fabulous. But one of the “manly” men there made fun of me, and my gut reaction was to laugh it off and just say it was to impress the women. I think that experience put it into my mind that wearing pink wasn’t for me; it was for the ladies. 🙄
Nowadays, the only person I try to impress with my clothes is myself.