None of the outdoors is on my property and as such they’re not allowed to leave it there even if I ask them to
Is that their explanation, or what you assume? The problem is usually that the seller specifically requested it be signed for. They even have keys to most apartment buildings, so they can even leave it outside your door or the actual building. I’ve had many PostNord home deliveries left outside my building’s door; just need to see that the package allows FlexChange and then request it.
(Or maybe you’re Danish? No idea how they do it there)